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Can These BFFs Heal After This ‘Shocking’ Ghosting? | MTV's Ghosted


– I didn't need to share any of this on digital camera (crying) I didn't need to share it! – [Tahira] I perceive

– And now it's on the market! (crying) – [Narrator] On this episode of Ghosted Love Gone Lacking, Travis and Rachel are serving to Whitney who was ghosted by her finest good friend Tahira two years in the past – [Rachel] And so that you went to varsity in– – Boston Faculty, yep – Okay – I met these individuals who like for those who didn't have some huge cash, or for those who didn't go to a sure prep college, no one cared who you have been – Superficial

– Precisely and I had a troublesome time assembly real folks there It was form of like a tough patch in my life Once I met Tahira it was lastly like, wow I’ve somebody who truly cares about what I’ve to say – What makes Tahira such an excellent good friend? – She was simply actually there for me when lots of people weren't I went by means of an consuming dysfunction in school

She was the one one who was simply there if I wanted somebody to speak to, she was only a good supportive good friend by means of all of it She was the sister I by no means had – [Narrator] The 2 had deliberate to maneuver to LA collectively, however then issues modified – Really our senior yr, I used to be planning on transferring to LA We have been speaking about taking a look at flats collectively after which I interned on Capitol Hill for congresswoman Claudia Tenney

I form of fell in love with it and I made a decision to not transfer to LA – [Travis] And what did she transfer out to LA to do? – She was beginning her personal social media advertising firm – So while you advised her, how did she take that information? – She appeared slightly bummed that we wouldn't be on the market collectively however she by no means bought mad and by no means was like indignant about it – [Narrator] And as soon as Tahira landed in LA, Whitney by no means heard from her once more – Take us by means of the day of the particular ghosting

– So when she first moved to LA in August I used to be asking her all of those questions, how do you prefer it? And I wished to listen to about how she was doing together with her job She actually wasn't answering me in any respect, she wouldn't reply to my social media messages both, tried to name her– – She's a social media supervisor, that's what she's alleged to do (chuckles) – I wouldn't get a name again, I simply stopped getting responses after which I by no means heard something again – [Narrator] To determine what occurred, Travis and Rachel, and Whitney head to LA the place they join with two of Tahira's associates – So how did you two meet Tahira? – Yeah, I met Tahira by means of Juliette, in all probability when she was a sophomore trigger I used to be a senior but– – So while you met her, I used to be residing together with her

– [Tahira's Friend] Most likely – Sophomore yr, yeah, trigger that's after we lived collectively – Yeah, yeah, I really feel like I met you want as soon as perhaps like I don't– – So with LA, who moved out right here first? – I believe I did truly – You moved out right here first – I moved out right here, 'trigger I'm from California initially

– Tahira got here and stayed with you? – She stayed with me when she was looking for a spot on her personal – So this was round August of 2017? – Sure it was – So that may be across the similar time that she ghosted you two years in the past Was there something that Tahira was saying when she first got here out right here, was something on her thoughts? – She talked about a good friend from BC was gonna transfer out right here too however ended up not and I believe she was perhaps upset by that – Did Tahira ghost me as a result of I didn't transfer to LA? – I really feel prefer it's not even like our story to inform however it's laborious simply trigger she's by no means even, like I don't imply to be impolite however she's like by no means talked about you

– I do know the explanation why she ghosted you – [Travis] You do? – She advised me – When did she let you know? As soon as she realized that we have been right here or it's one thing y'all talked about within the final couple years? – No, this was a number of months go she advised me – Okay, is that one thing you’re feeling snug sharing? – All I actually can say is that, you confirmed your true colours and that form of upset her (dramatic music) (canine whines) – [Narrator] As soon as her associates confirmed that Travis and Rachel are legit, Tahira agrees to satisfy up with them On the situation that Whitney doesn’t be part of

– When did you begin to wanna put an finish to this friendship? – One thing actually devastating occurred She simply truthfully actually offended me and it wasn't her in any respect I used to be shocked that's all I can actually say about it – Why did you’re feeling the necessity to not confront her about it, and let her understand how dangerous this affected you? – It nonetheless like one thing that I'm form of nonetheless processing truthfully There was no query that I needed to distance myself from her, after what occurred occurred

– [Narrator] After speaking with Travis and Rachel, Tahira agrees to inform Whitney why she ghosted her, nose to nose – I've actually missed you for the final two years, I imply seeing you right this moment introduced again so many good reminiscences You have been one of many solely real folks I discovered at BC and like we shared a lot, you helped me by means of a whole lot of robust occasions My household has additionally actually missed you (Tahira crying) I believe it's simply been laborious for me since you have been so necessary to me at BC for 4 years and also you have been like my greatest help system there

And now, we simply haven't talked in any respect I've racked my mind making an attempt to assume if I by chance mentioned one thing that may have been offensive and I actually can't provide you with something and I truthfully simply wanna work out what occurred Senior yr we talked so much about us transferring to LA collectively, have been you mad that I moved to DC as a substitute of LA? – By no means

No – So why did you ghost me? – First, I wanna say, that it's so good to see you With the ability to see you want wholesome and simply, I by no means like stopped caring about you I didn't overlook about you each single time you reached out it was actually actually laborious to only ignore you and I simply at all times felt like I used to be a part of your loved ones so I simply actually wanna thanks for that However, (suspenseful music) I ghosted you as a result of, you're supporting Trump

Once I noticed these posts earlier than you deleted them – What's that photograph of? – Whitney posted concerning the inauguration and appeared such as you have been very keen about it There have been posts on Whitney's web page from the inauguration, on this one it says, Trumps inauguration was empty after which it's a photograph of it clearly not being empty In posting that you’re exhibiting help and it actually simply broke my coronary heart I didn't wanna make you’re feeling such as you needed to imagine a sure factor as a way to be my good friend

(Whitney crying) How do I clarify all the experiences of my life and my household's life and say, "Please don't help him for that reason, or that motive" I couldn't, it was like making an attempt to elucidate my complete life My mother's from Jamaica, my dad's from Saint Kitts, like these are two of the nations that he was speaking such horrible issues about I might by no means help that and I might by no means stand by and watch somebody who I beloved so, a lot help that And that's why I ghosted you

– To begin with, I wanna say thanks for lastly telling me Second of all, I wanna say like I'm truthfully kinda shocked that that was the explanation, like I used to be not anticipating that in any respect I'm form of mad as a result of this is the reason ghosting is so tousled If you happen to had texted me and mentioned, "What's up with the Trump stuff?" I’d textual content you again and I’d let you know I don't like him My household constructed a metal firm and like among the financial stuff helps small metal firms in freakin' Utica, New York

– Did you vote for him although? – I did vote for Trump within the 2016 election I imply I actually, I didn't need to share any of this on digital camera (Whitney crying) I didn't need to share it! – [Tahira] I perceive – And now it's on the market! – If she had a distinct political view, it’s your accountability to have the ability to communicate your piece and use it as a platform and educate that individual And I'm upset together with her that she didn't try this

– You recognize me fairly properly Like we lived collectively, my values as an individual You recognize I've been mortified by the previous three years and shocked what's occurring in our nation however like I dwell in DC, I’ve conversations with folks about politics on a regular basis, and like even when we don't share the identical views, it's a dialog

Like you’ll be able to discuss by means of it and like I simply can't imagine you haven't talked to me in two years as a result of I voted for him Can I similar to take a second? – [Narrator] Whitney and Tahira will resolve whether or not they wanna make up or ghost – [Travis] Please ship your last textual content now (dinging) – [Rachel] Okay Whitney, what did she resolve? – As a result of I believe that our friendship is simply too necessary to me, we've been associates for a very long time, been by means of so much, I made a decision I wanna make up – [Travis] Tahira what did you resolve? – I used to be ready the place I didn't know what to do, I didn't know the right way to face the state of affairs, it was incorrect of me to ghost you with out a proof, I do know it wasn't the fitting technique to go about it

I simply need you to know that I, I simply love you a lot and I really am simply actually completely satisfied to see you, so I wanna make up – I like you too ♪ Typically we have to conceal out from ♪ – [Rachel] Yeah you guys! These are tears of pleasure now, you guys ♪ They don't gotta let go ♪ – [Narrator] So, how's Whitney's friendship with Tahira doing two months after their confrontation? (telephone ringing) – Yo – Hello Whitney

– Hello, miss you guys – How are you doing? – Really, I had two days in LA earlier than I left and I spent them each with Tahira We've been texting and FaceTiming and we're simply completely satisfied to be again in each other's lives – We're so glad that you just guys made amends, that you just bought your finest good friend again – I simply wanna say thanks a lot for serving to me discover out why Tahira ghosted me

– [Travis] You're very welcome, peace – Thanks Whitney, have an excellent one, bye

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